i think the reason monogamy is hard for you is that you haven't found the right person yet. (doesn't that sound like an argument for why people are gay? you just haven't found the right girl... hear me out anyway). if you really were very very into someone the idea of short lived pleasure wouldn't be worth giving up what you have with the one you love. it's not so much that you don't want to be with someone, it's that you don't want to be with anyone that you've met/dated/liked yet.
kick me if i'm wrong here.
anyway. i think the main issue for you is going to be finding a girl who's good enough. pretty much the only person i know that i could see you liking and being with for real would be anna, because you're both smart and kind and interested in similar things. you're a very intellegent, interesting, attractive person, and very few babes are going to measure up. how many interesting intellegent and attractive single babes do you even know in real life? especially in this country and this state.
give yourself time, i think that you have the ability and desire to love someone for real, you just haven't met them yet. i think the idea of "the one" is stupid, but i do think that there are people out there who can make you a happier and better person for being with them.
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Date: 2005-08-10 11:11 pm (UTC)kick me if i'm wrong here.
anyway. i think the main issue for you is going to be finding a girl who's good enough. pretty much the only person i know that i could see you liking and being with for real would be anna, because you're both smart and kind and interested in similar things. you're a very intellegent, interesting, attractive person, and very few babes are going to measure up. how many interesting intellegent and attractive single babes do you even know in real life? especially in this country and this state.
give yourself time, i think that you have the ability and desire to love someone for real, you just haven't met them yet. i think the idea of "the one" is stupid, but i do think that there are people out there who can make you a happier and better person for being with them.