aha... well good on you for being ahead of the curve. I came from a hippie family where everything was discussed and we were all exposed to way too much too soon, so my agenda as a parent has had a different flavor to it. Also, having a girl gives you a different spin as well. 14 was just too young for her to be giving it up to some 17 year old boy. condoms or not.

who knew parenting was going to be so complicated?